<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497676080175393918</id><updated>2011-11-27T16:31:32.843-08:00</updated><category term='romance'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='sex life'/><category term='love'/><category term='dance poles'/><title type='text'>Realistic Romance &amp; Intimacy</title><subtitle type='html'>This is my outlet to express everyday concerns and issues that affect relationships, love, and intimacy. I'm not a counselor but I'm a wife, mother, and career woman. I write from my experience and what works for me and those whom I know *realistic*. I talk about sexual issues, the products we love, issues that newly weds and/or new parents encounter. I hope that this blog will grow into something that is informative and down-right entertaining.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Pleasurable Desires</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08112239123393778904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='15' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/Sy4fY4jkJaI/AAAAAAAAAAc/Y53nYEm7MPo/S220/logosm.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>4</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497676080175393918.post-5304654251171235069</id><published>2010-02-01T12:33:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-01T12:35:16.019-08:00</updated><title type='text'>This Buzz is for You!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-family: Times, &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;, serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Ecstasy at your Fingertips...Aren't You&amp;nbsp;Excited?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666;"&gt;Allow me to introduce the newest member to the CalExotic's Petite Couture Collection...Ecstasy! This girl gets the job done and is&amp;nbsp;capable of unlimited hours of&amp;nbsp;breath-taking fun. It only takes 3 AAA batteries to get this baby buzzin' and this is definitely a must have for your nightstand collection or traveling case...did I mention that it is the perfect size and light weight?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;strike&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Her Features:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strike&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Feather touch controls w/ luminous light - easy to operate &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Unscented - less chance of infection or allergic reaction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Waterproof - need I say anymore...everyone needs water play&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Automatic on/off button - again easy to operate &amp;amp; control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Seven heavenly functions - vibration, pulsation &amp;amp; escalation = one happy lady &amp;amp; clitoris&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;Three speeds of shaft rotation - slow to fast "circles"...YES!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;EZ-load batter case&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;The FINEST medical grade silicone from Japan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;"&gt;4.75" / 12cm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S2crtGodJRI/AAAAAAAAACI/hjCB4LDnKhE/s1600-h/ecstasy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" kt="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S2crtGodJRI/AAAAAAAAACI/hjCB4LDnKhE/s200/ecstasy.jpg" width="153" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666;"&gt;Ecstasy is just the right size for all types of entertainment. If you're a traveling woman, always on the go, this low maintenance product is just right for you. It is small enough to travel with, battery operated, and the material relaxes you from the inside out. It is very easy to operate this vibrator. The bottom button turns powers the toy (blue lights immediate light up), the second button controls your 7-function vibration, pulsation &amp;amp; escalation (accommodates beginners from - stages 1-2, and Veterans - stages 3-7). The third (top) button controls your penetration...what I refer to as "circle time". The penetration is consistent through all three stages but the speed can be manipulated according to your current needs or desires. This is a dual-action vibrator, meaning that it performs more than one function or task as I like to call them. If you are a beginner this is the perfect vibrator for you because you don't have to do much (just lay there and enjoy it). Once you've established your comfort level then you have 7 speeds to progress towards for clitoral pleasure and 3 shaft speeds for vaginal pleasure. With any use of adult toys you MUST use a toy cleaner to prevent infections. The silicone provides a smooth non-slip grip and makes it very easy to clean.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #e06666;"&gt;I strongly recommend this product as a tool for intimacy re-building with your spouse or partner. You learn a great deal about a person's likes and dislikes through foreplay and/or self AND partner assisted masturbation. Let’s face it...what we liked at 21 may not be what it takes to get the job done at 29, so with that, EXPLORE one another and adventure off into the wonderful world of adult toys...satisfaction guaranteed!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8497676080175393918-5304654251171235069?l=pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/feeds/5304654251171235069/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2010/02/this-buzz-for-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/5304654251171235069'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/5304654251171235069'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2010/02/this-buzz-for-you.html' title='This Buzz is for You!'/><author><name>Pleasurable Desires</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08112239123393778904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='15' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/Sy4fY4jkJaI/AAAAAAAAAAc/Y53nYEm7MPo/S220/logosm.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S2crtGodJRI/AAAAAAAAACI/hjCB4LDnKhE/s72-c/ecstasy.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497676080175393918.post-1078761714646269673</id><published>2010-01-12T22:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-12T22:30:53.536-08:00</updated><title type='text'>You're Looking at the Newest Cal Exotics Sexpert!!</title><content type='html'>Stay connected to my blog because I will be reviewing the latest and HOTTEST products from California Exotic Novelties...the leader in adult novelty products.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How Exciting...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S01mza-QMBI/AAAAAAAAACA/EI-ryGTpcRA/s1600-h/sexpert.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S01mza-QMBI/AAAAAAAAACA/EI-ryGTpcRA/s640/sexpert.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8497676080175393918-1078761714646269673?l=pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/feeds/1078761714646269673/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2010/01/youre-looking-at-newest-cal-exotics.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/1078761714646269673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/1078761714646269673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2010/01/youre-looking-at-newest-cal-exotics.html' title='You&apos;re Looking at the Newest Cal Exotics Sexpert!!'/><author><name>Pleasurable Desires</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08112239123393778904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='15' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/Sy4fY4jkJaI/AAAAAAAAAAc/Y53nYEm7MPo/S220/logosm.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/S01mza-QMBI/AAAAAAAAACA/EI-ryGTpcRA/s72-c/sexpert.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497676080175393918.post-8627812515877490957</id><published>2009-12-25T13:33:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-26T03:35:47.498-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Best "Buzz" for You...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/SzU2G_GFWnI/AAAAAAAAABo/TgNb9BNRgc4/s1600-h/LOBLACKSATIN.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5419297220254325362" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/SzU2G_GFWnI/AAAAAAAAABo/TgNb9BNRgc4/s320/LOBLACKSATIN.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Selecting the right vibrator is not an easy task for the beginner and thorough consideration of &lt;strong&gt;size&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;vibration&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;cost&lt;/strong&gt; should be analyzed prior to making a purchase.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Beginner:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Start simple when choosing your first vibrator. The bullet is a great starter vibrator as well as a must have for any woman's night stand. The bullet provides an external vibration that can also be combined with certain massage applicators. You also want to choose something simple in &lt;strong&gt;shape&lt;/strong&gt; and/or design and that is easily maintained (ensure you purchase a toy cleaner with any adult toy). Please do not assume that the smaller the object the less power because this is not true. Bullets and slim vibrators can "pack an amazing and gratifying punch". Since the objective is sexual gratification, choose something that represents you and/or your partner and that is appealing to the eye. Your comfort level is whats most important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Pro:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since you know what you want, how you want it, and what it takes to get it...perhaps you may want to increase its power and its functions. Dual-vibrators are great for those who need or prefer additional action at the same time. Dual-vibrators stimulate the clitoris and vagina with pearls that massage the inner walls, rotating shafts for thrust, and a rabbit or dolphin to for extreme clitoral pleasure. Re-chargeable vibrators receive my recommendation, however, battery operated vibrators are great and serve their purposes as well. &lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cost:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Vibrators can be cheap (which we should never consider as an option when pertaining to our body and satisfaction) and very expensive. You've heard the saying..."you pay for what you get"...so why waste your hard earned money on something that isn't going to last? Durable vibrators can range anywhere from $49 and up...but your pleasure should be priceless. I've spent over $100 for a vibrator, but it fulfills my needs and is re-chargeable and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;that's&lt;/span&gt; all that matters...plus my husband deploys so...well you know! Please consider that when purchasing a battery operated vibrator, batteries cost, so eventually you end up spending, up to if not more than, the amount you would have paid for a re-chargeable vibrator. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Various Vibrators:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Bullets - external use (massage/clitoral stimulation) &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Vibrating Cock Rings - external use (clitoral &amp;amp; testicle stimulation)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Dongs - internal use&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;G-Spot - internal use&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Anal - internal use&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Dual-Vibrators (multiple areas) - clitoral and internal stimulation w/ rotating shaft/beads&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Where to Buy:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Consumers are making on-lines purchases for most of their adult needs. On-line shopping provides elite privacy that storefront shops can't provide. If you do choose to make your purchases on-line, ensure that the store provides discrete shipping. Discrete shipping is where they do not use the store's full name (perhaps initials) on the shipping label. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff99ff;"&gt;Pleasurable Desires:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I take pride in viewing my on-line store as my "baby". I select only the products that I feel appeal to women and men and I'm constantly researching tips and ideas that will continue to give consumers ideas for their relationships (I know how important sexual spontaneity and romance is in a marriage and relationship). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Pleasurable Desires...is where you define sexy!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.pleasurabledesires.com/"&gt;http://www.pleasurabledesires.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8497676080175393918-8627812515877490957?l=pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/feeds/8627812515877490957/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2009/12/best-buzz-for-you.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/8627812515877490957'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/8627812515877490957'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2009/12/best-buzz-for-you.html' title='The Best &quot;Buzz&quot; for You...'/><author><name>Pleasurable Desires</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08112239123393778904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='15' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/Sy4fY4jkJaI/AAAAAAAAAAc/Y53nYEm7MPo/S220/logosm.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/SzU2G_GFWnI/AAAAAAAAABo/TgNb9BNRgc4/s72-c/LOBLACKSATIN.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497676080175393918.post-8315764055414522622</id><published>2009-11-22T13:22:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-22T13:41:45.863-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='romance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sex life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='intimacy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dance poles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>How do you maintain the spice from a relationship to marriage?</title><content type='html'>Well, this is Pleasurable Desires' first blog and we couldn't be more excited about it! Many of my married customers email me asking me what the best methods are to keep their marriage spicy and exciting. After a certain amount of years married, they notice the romance department isn't quite the same as it was when they "just" dated. Of course it isn't the same...the dating phase was to "impress" and a lot of women AND men get comfortable once years have passed by or they wed. I can come up with several tips, that work(ed) for my marriage, but would that really solve anything? My answer is "no". I figured out that both members of a relationship need to identify the things that make them happy, satisfied, and begging for more and they need to share that information to their spouse/partner (only). Then, based off of knowing what he/she [really] likes and wants you create alter egos, fantasy islands, and scenes from there. I can honestly say that out of the five years I've been married, the use of adult games, toys, wigs, 6" heels, and costumes have really heightened our bedroom! For some women who feel that the use of toys, or anything other than themselves, is a sign that he isn't interested in her anymore. I don't agree with this because I know that..."I can get the job done just fine by myself"...but we all yearn for some spontaneity from time to time...you know something that makes you blush or burst into laughter while at work the next morning. I have to be honest, as a married woman, it is a lot of work to do to make your marriage last. Divorce is real and is increasing annually. Why? Sex, money, and adultery. I'm here to tell you that what you don't do, he or she (outside of your home) will. So, with that said, if you really care about your marriage and want to give it your all, then why not try something different? Why not blow his mind as a fictious character you created, wearing a wig, chaps, and heels? Why not purchase a portable pole and strip tease for him? To me, thats what love is all about...going above and beyond for your loved one (and yourself)...and that is how you maintain the spice in your marriage.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8497676080175393918-8315764055414522622?l=pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/feeds/8315764055414522622/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-do-you-maintain-spice-from.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/8315764055414522622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8497676080175393918/posts/default/8315764055414522622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://pleasurabledesires.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-do-you-maintain-spice-from.html' title='How do you maintain the spice from a relationship to marriage?'/><author><name>Pleasurable Desires</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08112239123393778904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='15' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J1BUllJHP8w/Sy4fY4jkJaI/AAAAAAAAAAc/Y53nYEm7MPo/S220/logosm.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry></feed>
