The Best "Buzz" for You...

Selecting the right vibrator is not an easy task for the beginner and thorough consideration of size, vibration and cost should be analyzed prior to making a purchase.

The Beginner:
Start simple when choosing your first vibrator. The bullet is a great starter vibrator as well as a must have for any woman's night stand. The bullet provides an external vibration that can also be combined with certain massage applicators. You also want to choose something simple in shape and/or design and that is easily maintained (ensure you purchase a toy cleaner with any adult toy). Please do not assume that the smaller the object the less power because this is not true. Bullets and slim vibrators can "pack an amazing and gratifying punch". Since the objective is sexual gratification, choose something that represents you and/or your partner and that is appealing to the eye. Your comfort level is whats most important.

The Pro:
Since you know what you want, how you want it, and what it takes to get it...perhaps you may want to increase its power and its functions. Dual-vibrators are great for those who need or prefer additional action at the same time. Dual-vibrators stimulate the clitoris and vagina with pearls that massage the inner walls, rotating shafts for thrust, and a rabbit or dolphin to for extreme clitoral pleasure. Re-chargeable vibrators receive my recommendation, however, battery operated vibrators are great and serve their purposes as well.

Cost:
Vibrators can be cheap (which we should never consider as an option when pertaining to our body and satisfaction) and very expensive. You've heard the saying..."you pay for what you get"...so why waste your hard earned money on something that isn't going to last? Durable vibrators can range anywhere from $49 and up...but your pleasure should be priceless. I've spent over $100 for a vibrator, but it fulfills my needs and is re-chargeable and that's all that matters...plus my husband deploys so...well you know! Please consider that when purchasing a battery operated vibrator, batteries cost, so eventually you end up spending, up to if not more than, the amount you would have paid for a re-chargeable vibrator.

Various Vibrators:

Bullets - external use (massage/clitoral stimulation)

Vibrating Cock Rings - external use (clitoral & testicle stimulation)

Dongs - internal use

G-Spot - internal use

Anal - internal use

Dual-Vibrators (multiple areas) - clitoral and internal stimulation w/ rotating shaft/beads

Where to Buy:

Consumers are making on-lines purchases for most of their adult needs. On-line shopping provides elite privacy that storefront shops can't provide. If you do choose to make your purchases on-line, ensure that the store provides discrete shipping. Discrete shipping is where they do not use the store's full name (perhaps initials) on the shipping label.

Pleasurable Desires:

I take pride in viewing my on-line store as my "baby". I select only the products that I feel appeal to women and men and I'm constantly researching tips and ideas that will continue to give consumers ideas for their relationships (I know how important sexual spontaneity and romance is in a marriage and relationship).

Pleasurable Desires...is where you define sexy!

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How do you maintain the spice from a relationship to marriage?

Well, this is Pleasurable Desires' first blog and we couldn't be more excited about it! Many of my married customers email me asking me what the best methods are to keep their marriage spicy and exciting. After a certain amount of years married, they notice the romance department isn't quite the same as it was when they "just" dated. Of course it isn't the same...the dating phase was to "impress" and a lot of women AND men get comfortable once years have passed by or they wed. I can come up with several tips, that work(ed) for my marriage, but would that really solve anything? My answer is "no". I figured out that both members of a relationship need to identify the things that make them happy, satisfied, and begging for more and they need to share that information to their spouse/partner (only). Then, based off of knowing what he/she [really] likes and wants you create alter egos, fantasy islands, and scenes from there. I can honestly say that out of the five years I've been married, the use of adult games, toys, wigs, 6" heels, and costumes have really heightened our bedroom! For some women who feel that the use of toys, or anything other than themselves, is a sign that he isn't interested in her anymore. I don't agree with this because I know that..."I can get the job done just fine by myself"...but we all yearn for some spontaneity from time to time...you know something that makes you blush or burst into laughter while at work the next morning. I have to be honest, as a married woman, it is a lot of work to do to make your marriage last. Divorce is real and is increasing annually. Why? Sex, money, and adultery. I'm here to tell you that what you don't do, he or she (outside of your home) will. So, with that said, if you really care about your marriage and want to give it your all, then why not try something different? Why not blow his mind as a fictious character you created, wearing a wig, chaps, and heels? Why not purchase a portable pole and strip tease for him? To me, thats what love is all about...going above and beyond for your loved one (and yourself)...and that is how you maintain the spice in your marriage.